update Renovate config for Maven dependency grouping

renovate.json

@@ -6,12 +6,6 @@
     "group:flyway"
   ],
   "packageRules": [
-    {
-      "matchPackageNames": [
-        "quay.io/buildah/stable"
-      ],
-      "enabled": false
-    },
     {
       "matchPackageNames": [
         "mariadb"
@@ -19,18 +13,41 @@
       "automerge": false,
       "dependencyDashboardApproval": true
     },
+    {
+      "matchManagers": ["maven"],
+      "extends": ["schedule:monthly"]
+    },
+    {
+      "groupName": "maven plugins",
+      "matchManagers": ["maven"],
+      "matchDepTypes": ["plugin"],
+      "extends": ["schedule:weekly"]
+    },
     {
       "groupName": "hibernate orm",
       "matchPackageNames": [
         "org.hibernate.orm:**"
-      ]
+      ],
+      "extends": ["schedule:monthly"]
     },
     {
       "groupName": "apache commons",
       "matchPackageNames": [
         "commons-**",
         "org.apache.commons:**"
-      ]
+      ],
+      "extends": ["schedule:monthly"]
+    },
+    {
+      "matchManagers": ["maven"],
+      "matchDepTypes": ["dependency", "parentPom"],
+      "matchPackageNames": [
+        "net.dv8tion:JDA",
+        "dev.arbjerg:lavaplayer",
+        "dev.lavalink.youtube:**",
+        "club.minnced:jdave-*"
+      ],
+      "schedule": ["at any time"]
     },
     {
       "groupName": "github actions (minor/patch)",